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Fifty Years of Love – Jack and Dorothy’s Anniversary

May 24, 2022 by Jack Emmott 2 Comments

When Did I Know I Loved You?

I wrote a new song for Dorothy to finally answer her question after 50 years of marriage.
“Jack, when did you know you loved me?”
It was not love at first sight for me. After a few months, I fell in love with her.  After all the years, I am still falling more deeply in love with you, Dorothy, every single day.

Thanks to Brian Carrion for singing the song so beautifully.  Thanks to Paul Burks for creating the amazing graphics which accompanied my tribute to Dorothy and my love for her.
Don’t see the video below? View the original on YouTube.  

What Is Love?

A year ago I wrote the song. “What Is Love.”
Last night as part of my tribute to Dorothy on our 50th Wedding Anniversary I shared this song with her at Chandelier Grove.  Because of my bride Dorothy I know what love is.  I hope you enjoy the video.
Thanks to Paul Burks from Austin for creating the video and the special effects.  Thanks to Stephanie Jones and Brian Carrion for singing the song.  Thanks to my intellectual property lawyer Yocel Alonzo for copyrighting the song.
Thanks to God for Love.

Don’t see the video below? View the original on YouTube.  
 

The Celebration

At Chandelier Grove owned by my dear Brother Russell and wife Stacey, we had a magical evening with friends and family to celebrate our 50th Wedding Anniversary. 

The Queen Barn was beautifully adorned with flowers and greenery by Mark Ruisinger of Mark Anthony’s.  The delicious food was provided by Jennifer Trevino of Behind the Bash.  We owe so much to Stacey and Russell for opening their hearts and their venue for our once-in-a-wife-time celebration.

Before the event, our family posed for these photos. Our lovely and talented niece McKenzie Emmott took the photos. Thanks, McKenzie for making sure we had these photographs to treasure forever.

What a weekend.  What a life.  What a love story with my bride Dorothy.

 
Dorothy and I wish to thank everyone who sent us their well wishes on our 50th Wedding Anniversary.  This evening Father Bob Wismer blessed our marriage in a small family service in the Chapel of St. Clare.  Father Bob did a wonderful and memorable service for us.

During the service, our Grandson John V (the animated 6-year-old behind me) asked Father Bob if we were having chocolate cake!
 
Blessings, Jack

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Prayer That Water Be Turned into Wine, the Miracle within Marriage – May 24, 2020

May 23, 2020 by Jack Emmott 1 Comment

In December of 1972 on the pier on a tributary of Lake Houston beside a gingerbread house on Moonshine Hill Road in Humble, Texas I asked Dorothy to marry me. The memory of that day is as vivid now as is captured in this photograph of us in our early 20s.  The start of an adventure in marriage which began on May 20, 1972.

I have made many choices in my life.  Some good.  Some bad.  But of those choices, asking her to marry me was the best one I ever made.  That day we did not have much luck with fishing.  Yet, I made the best catch of all.  Dorothy.

There is no doubt that God brought us together.  Nor any doubt that we were meant to be husband and wife for life, for love, forever.

Like many of you, when I was a teenager and a young college student, I yearned to be loved.  But I was different.  Because of my faith, I felt deep down that I was special and was worthy to be loved.  However, I was afraid that I would never meet a girl who could see me as a future husband.

Whether disabled or not, most of us are uncomfortable with how we look.  To tall.  Too short. Too heavy.  To thin.  To fair or dark skinned.  Too freckled.  Hair too straight.  Too curly.  Then, there was the curse of pimples in high school!  If only we could find a cave to crawl into and to come out of and look gorgeous or handsome.  The object of true love’s desire.

Before I met Dorothy, I asked myself who could really be attracted to me.  Scoliosis.  Legs and shoulders of different lengths.  Steel rods in my back.  Orthopedic shoes.  The scars on my hands, back, right-upper leg and both ankles.  Unable to do so much for myself. So dependent.  Someone to be more cared for than to be a caregiver.

Jesus’s first miracle was turning water into wine at a wedding in Cana 2000 years ago.  Beginning in 1972 Dorothy’s love has been a Holy miracle of biblical proportions for me.  For all those limitations, differences, and weaknesses have been healed by God’s love for me through her.

God gave me many talents. But, the best part of me is Dorothy.

I may never be the President of the United States, the Governor of Texas, a billionaire like Warren Buffett, a professional athlete or win the Pulitzer Prize for writing a book or getting a Grammy for writing a song.  But, in Dorothy I am the richest husband on Earth.

I love 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 (NIV) so much so that it is on the cover of my book Prayerful Passages.  The quote many of you know by heart is:

4 Love is patient, love is kind.  It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.  5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, and it keeps no record of wrongs.  6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.  7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, and always perseveres.

8 Love never fails.  But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away.

This week I celebrated another wedding anniversary.  Another dozen roses, yellow this year.  I kissed my blushing bride.  I hope you do the same to your spouse.

With Dorothy’s help as my conscience, as my typist in law school at the University of Texas, and as my paralegal for more than 40 years, I have now the best me I have ever been.  The best family law attorney I can be in serving others in trouble marriages.  In Dorothy and in my work with divorcing couples I am blessed to witness every day examples of what it takes to have a good marriage, to keep it strong and to love ever more deeply.

Today, God I pray that You lead others to find their true loves.  That in the sacrament of marriage unconditional love for one another be found.  That in that miraculous love all married persons are healed as I have been healed just as You transformed water into wine at a wedding long long ago at Cana in Galilee.

God, I pray that You help each of us recognize the angels You send our way just as You helped me at age 23 see Dorothy for what she was and who she is….an angel, a living messenger of Your love for me.  Amen

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Jack H. Emmott is a Senior Counsel of Gray, Reed & McGraw, LLP, a 145-lawyer full-service firm in Houston, Dallas, and Waco, Texas, a Board-Certified Family Law and Master Credentialed Collaborative Law Professional Divorce Attorney, Mediator, Author, Entrepreneur and Inspirational Speaker.  For more information about Jack or his latest book, Bending Angels: Living Messengers of God’s Love, go to the Bending Angel website.

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My Anniversary Prayer May 20, 2017

May 20, 2017 by Jack Emmott 4 Comments

Dear Lord – Your Son’s first miracle was transforming water into wine at a Wedding at Cana. You sending Dorothy to me was and is nothing short of a true miracle in my life. She is the best part of me. How blessed I am to share my earthly journey with her. For in her touch, her embrace, her words, her smile and her glance I see You and Your everlasting love for me every day. Before our marriage we sat together in the glow of Your grace with Grandmother Emmott. At age 23 I had the trust in You to propose to her on Uncle Army’s pier on a tributary of Lake Houston. Praise to You, Lord, for our marriage 45 years ago today. For in that sacrament, all of the broken pieces of my body from polio were healed by Your love through her, my bride, my angel and my best friend. Amen

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Jack H. Emmott is a Senior Counsel of Gray, Reed & McGraw, LLP, a 120 lawyer full service firm in Houston, Texas, a Board-Certified Family Law and Master Credentialed Collaborative Law Professional Divorce Attorney, Mediator, Author, Entrepreneur and Inspirational Speaker. For more information about Jack or his latest book, Bending Angels: Living Messengers of God’s Love, go to BendingAngel.com.

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About Jack H. Emmott

Jack H. Emmott

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